Goal 8

They can live a good life, many can even marry and have children, most will need assistance though.
Teach them it’s ok to have FASD; however their life will be different. We all need help in some areas. Tell them they can live a good life; most people with FASD can marry and have children. They can give hope to others, they can show the world they can make it, they can be a good team player, and a good community member.
Teach them the price is too high for them not to do good.
Negativity, point it out, fight it. If you ask them what frustrates them, you will often hear; “I’m bad, I’m stupid, I’m a retard, I lie, I can’t do good, or I steal.” Building their self esteem needs to be one of your goals. Realize they often feel lonely, sad, confused, and they have a higher suicide rate.
Set an example, model for them correct behavior, tell them the right answer. We often assume they know the right answer when often times they don’t.