Goal 10

Not only now but also into their future.
Don’t buy into lies; as parents we are often told their bad behaviors are just “normal kid stuff.” The difference is the frequency upon which the behaviors occur, the intensity of them, the fact that they often do not learn from their mistakes, and that normal parenting techniques don’t stop the behavior.
You may be misunderstood by professionals. Some professionals really do not understand FASD and look at the parents as the source of the problem and they think the child is fine.
Deal with your feelings of failure as a parent.
Be emotionally involved with your kids, not their undesirable behaviors.

Don’t remove the services if the child is doing better. They are doing better because of the services.