http://www.hayskids.com/hayskids_051.htm This Is HaysKids's website describing the assisted living center as well as information about adoption and FASD. Wed, 15 Oct 2008 18:00:12 GMT Web Easy by Avanquest Publishing USA, Inc. http://www.hayskids.com/hayskids_051.htm http://www.hayskids.com/hayskids051p00.gif • All house rules must be obeyed unless instructed to do otherwise by a person in authority, or permission is granted. • All persons must obey those in authority at all times regardless of their level. (If a person in authority asks someone to do something immoral or illegal then that order should be disobeyed.) If a person feels something is unfair then they can appeal to the team at the correct time, by submitting their disagreement in writing. • All persons must get permission to go upstairs, downstairs, or out of the home • Dress Code Must be modestly dressed No hats in-doors unless specified Can not be worn sideways or backwards No gang related clothing Pants can not be more than 2 fingers (sideways) below the belly button Pants can not be so long that it is walked on or they can not drag on the floor Tops or shirts must be modest and no belly flesh or back skin showing. They must have sleeves Jewelry: Can only wear 3 pieces (watches do not count) • A pair of earrings counts as 1 piece • Only one earring in each ear No negative or controversial items (decided by team) No offensive items (decided by team) Ear rings Must be post only unless permission is given Must be smaller than your earlobe Only one pair can be kept by the person, all others will be kept in their personal deposit box Make-up Must be modest Can be worn in public on social outings or as directed by staff Can be worn according to a persons level • Phone Can only be touched or answered by adults only unless otherwise specified Can be used according to a persons level • Violence and property damage are not allowed and can result in being placed on a lower level along with other consequences • A person can ask for a priority rule (exception to a House Rule, for a particular reason, must be applied for in writing) • Money No buying, selling, trading, receiving or giving anything away without permission. Cash will be determined by a persons level All purchases will must be approved by supervising adult unless otherwise stated All money will be stored in individual deposit box • Consequences If an incident report is filled out you must do a “Repent”(cognitive thinking skill paper) Other consequence may be given If you are acting much younger that your age you can be sent to the corner. (If you act like a 3 year old then you will receive a 3 year old consequence.) • Touching Males and females need to sit on the opposite side of the table, unless with permission or directed to otherwise Biological Siblings can sit next to and or have appropriate contact (hug) without permission No slugging, pushing, slapping, etc. No threatening retaliation • These are important area to work on in order to advance a level: Having a minimal number of incident reports Improving in these areas • being nice • being honesty • apologizing quickly • keeping room clean • doing well in school • showing that you care and that you are trying • behaviors • getting work done in a timely fashion • doing well at job • doing well at chores • show that you really care • lights off at appropriate time without being reminded (10 PM) • social skill development • sharing • being positive • following directions • cooperation • taking responsibility for ones actions • no violence or acts of aggression • no property damage http://www.hayskids.com/hayskids_051.htm Wed, 15 Oct 2008 18:00:12 GMT HaysKids is Created By HaysKids Assisted Living Center